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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2011 2:00:46 GMT -5
Hi guys, It's been very sad time for me for the last half of this week. My grandpa died of cancer at the age of 75. I've been holding up alright, but I'm more concerned about my mom. I'm not sure on what I can do to console her.
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Post by boogyman10o1 on Dec 31, 2011 3:02:41 GMT -5
I am very sorry for your loss. Consider your self lucky to have a grandpa, I actualy never had one or two for that matter. They both died before I was even born. Although I do have both of my grandma's still. One of them is holding ok, but the other is at a big risk. Her kidneys are not holding out right and she is having other problems that I don't know about like maybe liver problems. I am concerned for her and her health. Try to talk to you mom about the good times that you and her had a great time with your grandpa. Run through some jokes that he said a lot that was funny when he said it. If she starts going into emotional breakdown or the term simular to that, then it would be best to maybe show pictures of you guys together or video to remind you two about the fun times. If you could PM me or write on here what she is having troubles with like what was going on with me where I couldn't sleep or she may become emotionaly unstable. I cannot think clearly right now but if any of this text is mean or disrespectful in any way, it was not ment to be. Best wishes. I am always here if you need any other help or need to talk to me about somthing personal.
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Post by FrankT on Dec 31, 2011 8:10:17 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that!
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Post by Tim0n on Dec 31, 2011 8:41:08 GMT -5
I'm really sorry to hear about it. The only advice I can give you is to give your Mum as much support and care as you can. Losing people who are so close to you is very hard, but it happens. Everyone has to cope with it. It's definitely not easy, but it is easier when you have someone looking after you and supporting you in that hard time. Good luck and all the best to you and your Mum!
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Post by Misp on Dec 31, 2011 13:57:21 GMT -5
I'm really sorry to hear that. You know, my grandpa died at the age 65 - 3 years ago, he had a cancer too - you know, I know what do you feel now. You have to support and care your mum as much as you can, it's very important. It's very sad because it's Christmas time, time to be with all family, be happy, my first Christmas without my grandpa were very sad, there weren't this specia Xmas atmosphere. You have to care of your mum and rest of your family. Good luck and i wish all the best to your mum and your family.
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Post by tflager on Dec 31, 2011 16:49:32 GMT -5
My grandpa died of cancer when he was 48 years old...I was 4 at the time and really didn't understand death at all, however, later on, it hit me hard when I realized that he was involved in many great things. I understand what you're going through and I give my heartfelt consent to you and your mother.
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Post by millionairefan64 on Dec 31, 2011 19:11:52 GMT -5
Sorry to hear this, divvy. I have to tell ya, it wasn't my grandfather, but my Grandmother (my father's mother), died from Lung Cancer at the age of 68, less than 10 years ago. I was only 7 at the time, and even I didn't understand death. Way after her death, I found out that she smoked for so many years before she died. She was a very nervous person, so the doctor told her to smoke, of course this was back in the 50's. It didn't have to do with my grandfather, but it had to due my grandmother and her cancer. Hang in there bro and take care of your mother well while going through this diffficult time .
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2012 11:26:10 GMT -5
Thank you guys for your warm and kind words.
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